Title: Road Rage Incident: Woman Damaged My Side Mirror – Seeking Legal Advice
I experienced a disturbing incident in San Francisco, CA. While I was driving responsibly and slowed down behind a car waiting to make a left turn, another driver became enraged. She swerved dramatically into the intersection, jumped out of her car, and demanded that I fight her (I stayed safely inside my vehicle). In her rage, she smashed my driver’s side mirror with her fists, leaving it hanging off.
I have video footage of her walking away from the scene, along with photos of the damage, her face, and her license plate. I’m also in contact with a nearby deli worker who has security cameras covering that intersection and is willing to provide the footage.
After realizing she was attempting to flee the scene, I called the police. They took a quick statement from me, assigned a case number, and noted her license plate details, but I doubt they will thoroughly investigate this incident as she removed her plate when she noticed I was filming. The antagonist refused to exchange information, and the police didn’t seem very diligent; the number they provided for case follow-up goes straight to voicemail.
My insurance is aware of the situation and is involved. I want to pursue legal action for destruction of property, reckless driving, and any other applicable charges. Road rage like this is completely unacceptable and poses a serious risk to others. However, I’m concerned that the police may not follow through with identifying her based on her plates, which would hinder my ability to press charges.
Many people have told me it’s “not worth it” in terms of time and money to sue. I’m open to any advice on this situation.
EDIT/VENT: It’s frustrating to think that someone can vandalize another person’s property out of road rage without bearing any significant legal consequences. This behavior should not only be addressed by insurance—it feels like it should be on her record. I might consider posting in a legal subreddit for more insights, but I appreciate the space to share my experience here!
I’m sorry to hear about your experience; that sounds incredibly frustrating and distressing. Here are a few thoughts that might help you consider your options moving forward:
Suing for Damages: If you want to sue for the cost of replacing your mirror and possibly additional damages for emotional distress, it’s certainly an option. Given that you have video evidence, photos, and a witness (the deli worker), you have a strong case. However, pursuing legal action can be time-consuming and potentially expensive, so weigh that against the value of the damages.
Insurance Options: Since you’ve notified your insurance, they can also assist with the repair costs. Depending on your policy, they may be able to pursue compensation from the other party’s insurance, which can alleviate some of your burden without you having to directly become involved in a lawsuit.
Police Report: Keeping in touch with the police about your case is crucial. They might take some time, but if the person can be identified, it could lead to legal consequences for them, especially if you report any ongoing issues with their behavior.
Consider a Lawyer: Consulting with a personal injury lawyer is a good idea. Many offer free consultations and can provide insight into whether it’s worth pursuing legal action based on the specifics of your case.
Emotional Impact: Don’t underestimate the emotional toll this incident may have taken. It’s understandable to feel upset and wanting accountability, especially when reckless behavior like that can have severe consequences.
Community Resources: If you want to spread awareness about road rage and advocate for stricter consequences, consider reaching out to local community groups or forums to highlight your story.
Ultimately, your decision should hinge on how much time and energy you’re willing to invest versus the potential outcome. Sharing your experience on a legal subreddit might yield even more tailored advice from others who’ve been through similar situations. Good luck!